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Persian Words of Endearment: Azizam, Joonam & 15 Pet Names Explained
What does azizam mean? Why do Iranians say ghorboonet beram? A friendly guide to Persian terms of endearment, from everyday sweet words to how to say I love you in Farsi.
By the Delband team
If you're dating someone Iranian, you'll hear it fast: azizam, joonam, ghorboonet beram. Persian is a language that wears its heart on its sleeve, and some of its sweetest words sound dramatic when translated word for word. This guide explains what the most common terms of endearment actually mean, how strong each one is, and when it's natural to use them.
15+
Pet names and phrases explained below
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Levels: everyday, romantic, and all-in
-am
The little ending that means "my"
First, the one grammar trick you need
Most Persian pet names are built from a normal word plus the ending -am, which means "my". Aziz means dear, so azizam is "my dear". Eshgh is love, so eshgham is "my love". Once you notice the pattern, you'll start hearing it everywhere — and you can make your own.
Everyday sweet words (safe from day one)
Azizam
عزیزم
"My dear." The all-purpose sweet word, used with partners, friends, kids and even strangers.
Joonam
جونم
"My life / my soul." Warm and casual. Also how many Iranians answer when someone calls their name.
Golam
گلم
"My flower." Gentle and sweet, used a lot in everyday affection.
Asalam
عسلم
"My honey." Playful and cute — the closest match to "honey" in English.
Romantic words (once you're together)
Eshgham
عشقم
"My love." Clearly romantic — this is a partner word, not a friend word.
Nafasam
نفسم
"My breath." As in, you're what keeps me breathing. Tender and serious.
Delbandam
دلبندم
"The one my heart is tied to." An old, poetic word for a beloved — and the name of this app.
Noor-e cheshmam
نور چشمم
"Light of my eyes." Deeply affectionate; you'll hear parents say it to children too.
Khoshgelam
خوشگلم
"My beautiful." Flirty and sweet, used for both men and women.
Jigar
جیگر
Literally "liver" — in slang, "cutie" or "hottie".
Cheeky and casual. Great between the two of you; maybe not in front of their parents.
In Persian, affection isn't saved for special occasions. It's sprinkled into ordinary sentences, all day long.
The ones that sound dramatic in English
Ghorboonet beram
قربونت برم
Literally "may I be sacrificed for you." In real life it means something like "you're so sweet" or "aww, love you".
Very common, especially from mothers and grandmothers. Nobody is actually being sacrificed.
Fadat sham
فدات شم
"May I be your sacrifice." Same family as ghorboonet beram — a warm, everyday way to say "you mean a lot to me".
Doret begardam
دورت بگردم
"May I circle around you." An affectionate, slightly old-fashioned way of saying you'd do anything for someone.
How to say "I love you" in Farsi
Dooset daram
دوستت دارم
"I love you." The standard phrase — sincere, and used for partners and family.
Asheghetam
عاشقتم
"I'm in love with you." Stronger and more passionate than dooset daram.
Delam barat tang shode
دلم برات تنگ شده
Literally "my heart has become tight for you" — the way to say "I miss you".
Kheili dooset daram
خیلی دوستت دارم
"I love you so much." Add kheili (very) to turn up any feeling.
Tips if you're not fluent
- Start with azizam and the name + joon combo. They're hard to get wrong.
- Ask your partner to say the word first, then copy their pronunciation — they'll love that you're trying.
- Second-generation Iranians often mix English and Farsi: "love you, azizam" is completely normal.
- If you're learning for their family, ghorboonet beram said back to a grandmother almost always gets a big smile.
Find your own delbandam
Delband takes its name from one of the oldest words for a beloved in Persian. It's a dating app built for the Persian community — Iranians and the people who love them — with nearby matches and city chat rooms. Free to download on iPhone.
